1. Spends less time with you.
A cheating man must use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so he will have time with his “other” woman. [alarr.. mcm citer spaQ]
2. Isn’t as affectionate any more.
Your sex life in almost non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn’t want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he used to. [dulu-dulu sblom dpt... pantang dekat, nak pelukkkkkkkkkkk jeks..tp skang tetiba panas la.. migrane la.. rimas la.. rupanyer papa bosan @ dah ada mama II kat opis..]
3. He changes his physical appearance.
A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you. [ahaks.. bak kata lebohraya, tak menahan tu bila dah pakai baju 'marc anthony' kehkehkehee.. melawa siak!! rambut dulu belah tepi, skang dah mcm rambut laki victoria gitu..]
4. Car changes.
The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that’s what she likes. [hahahaaa.. tang ni besh, sesaper yg tuanpunya diri berkaki pendek... tetiba semacam jek rasa seat kete yg laki dia bwk.. hah!!! haruslah gf dia berkaki panjang, perghhh,...!! terbau lak perfume yg bukan dia punya kat seat-belt tu.. ni kompem la laki hang bwk minah model mana tah..kehkehkeh..]
5. Change in temperament.
A cheating man becomes more short-tempered because of the guilty feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not bother them suddenly start bothering them. [si bini tanya.. abang balik kul brapa?? tetiba laki dia melenting.. pd hal si bini nak masang kerang rebus kegemaran laki dia.. ha tu la tu, si laki tetiba rasa mcm bini nak control, maklumlah org dah buat salah]
6. A new fragrance.
A cheating man may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol, especially if he hasn’t had time to change them from meeting with her. [ni jenis yg lembab a.k.a sengal.. nak menipu tp tak terel, kengkonon hebat ar tu]
7. Behavioral changes.
A cheating man frequently becomes defensive when questioned about his whereabouts. He may turn it around to accuse you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy. [ni lebih kurang mcm senario no. 5 tadi, laki dia menggelupur tetiba nak angin bila bini dia tanya...tadi abang lunch appointment ngan saper??]
8. Cell phone changes.
A cheating man can not leave his telephone turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations. [huh...!! ni penah jd ngan ex-boss bonchitz. bila mlm jek, mula la silent ringer & vibrate lagik... pastu letak kt kain pelikat punya penggulung. sambil tgk tv ngan bini.. bila gf dia tpn.. laki dia jek la yg rasa 'getaran'nyer.. hahhahaha... yg kelakar tu, tv tetiba ada herotan, jadi bini sebok la ckp, takkan hp jiran sebelah bunyi.. tv kita ada herotan banggg??!]
9. Computer usage changes.
A cheating man may utilize a computer to seek out partners or communicate with. If your man is on his computer for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won’t see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest. [yg case ni .. universal.. bkn suami jek yg bikin mcm ni, sang isteri yg cuba-cuba nak test saham pun mcm gini gak... bila laki yg setia dpt tau, mau lebam muka isteri. tapi bila isteri yg setia cuba-cuba tanya laki dia.. abang buat keje apa memalam guna komputer? abang dia jwb, hiskk awak ni jgn ganngu saya buat keje opis ni.. !! si bini pun menjawab.. eh! eh! abang ni..bila pulak security guard boleh bwk keja balik umah? ... haaa.. nak menipu pun.. pepandai la nak pakai 'skrip'.. jgn jd bangang!!]
10. Changes in spending habits.
You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bills or stubs that you may have access to. [tang ni susah nak kesan if laki dia mmg kaya-raya mcm dato k.. heehee. melainkan laki dia ni yg keje kelas pertengahan... haaa.. bila dia manjang takda duit kena cepat bertindak ye timahhh]
Once you know if your man is cheating or not, make sure you have a plan of action that you will take after you accuse him. You need to decide whether it’s time for you to move on or whether this relationship may be worth a second chance. [bab yg ni selalunya isteri yg setia ada pulak 4 org anak... susah nak buat decision.. jadi makan hati je laaa tgk perangai laki yg tak sedar diri tu. melainkan si isteri yg lom ada anak, body pun vassss!! hah.. apa lagi, angkat kaki, selamat tinggal romeo ler...!! ]
