Showing posts with label part ii. Show all posts
Showing posts with label part ii. Show all posts

16.5.11

Sleep Techniques


This sleep technique is similar to counting sheep, however it is far more effective as you will see in a minute:

Step 1:
Once you’re ready to sleep, ensure that your bed and bedroom is dark, comfortable and not too warm. It’s best to lie on your back for this. So get yourself in a comfortable position and close your eyes.

Step 2:
Now begin to breathe deeply and slowly. Listen to each slow inhale and exhale. On each exhale, feel your body sinking down into the bed. Feel your body heavy and tired. Continue this until you feel relaxed from head to toe.

Step 3:
Now it’s time to begin with some affirmations. Imagine a calm and soothing voice and tell yourself ‘You feel sleepy and tired’ and ‘You will sleep better and better every night’ Feel free to adapt and change the affirmations. Just ensure that you use positive language.

Step 4:
Now continuing with your deep, slow breathing, begin to count up on each exhale. Working from your head to your toes, relax a part of your body on each exhale. Imagine and feel your body heavy and sinking deeper into the bed. Continue this until you reach your toes.

Step 5:
You may find that you lose track when counting. This is a good sign that you’re drifting, if this happens, don’t worry exactly where you were, just continue roughly where you left off. If at the end you are still awake, don’t panic! You can’t expect miracle cures.

This is just a simple sleep technique that helps your conscious mind drift and your subconscious to take over using your imagination. Alternatively you can also try a natural sleep aid, if you feel that you need a little help.

23.7.08

Negative Consequences of the Absences of Forgiving and Forgetting

In the absence of forgiving and forgetting, the partners in a relationship run the risk of:
  • Continuously being hurt with pain and suffering going unresolved.
  • Unresolved guilt and remorse for offenses committed.
  • Chronically seeking revenge and paybacks from one another.
  • Being caught up in unresolved anger, animosity, and bitterness.
  • Defensive, self-protective, and distant behavior.
  • Blaming, negative and non-growth oriented behavior.
  • Being stuck in a battlefield stockpiled for future offensive attacks.
  • Being lost in a festering wound that never realizes the revitalization of healing.
  • Secretive and non-communicative behavior.
  • Fear over making a mistake or of having the mistake revealed.
  • Being overwhelmed by fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of non-approval, low self-esteem, fear of conflict.
  • High stress.

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