Nonsexual Touch in Your Marriage

By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com Guide

When we are standing in a line at a movie theater or waiting for a seat in a restaurant, Bob often puts his hand on my shoulder. When we are walking, we hold hands. When I see that he is tired, I give him a quick neck rub. Just stroking his forehead brings about a sigh of satisfaction.
We are firm believers in the importance of nonsexual touch in marriage.

What is Nonsexual Touch?

Here are more examples of affection and nonsexual touch in marriage:

1. Holding hands both privately and in public.
2. Nonsexual massage of neck, shoulders, back.
3. Hugs.
4. Sitting close to one another both privately and in public.
5. Kisses, especially unexpected kisses.
6. Holding one another.
7. Cuddling, snuggling.
8. Walking arm in arm.
9. Stroking.
10. Reaching across the table to touch hands.
11. Simple caring and tender gestures such as resting your hand on your spouse's leg.
12. Putting your hand on your spouse's shoulder.
13. Gentle caresses.
    

Why is Nonsexual Touch Important in Your Marriage?

Nonsexual touch and other signs of affection strengthens your marriage relationship, creates a comforting and calming atmosphere in your home, builds trust between the two of you, and deepens your intimacy with one another.
Do not let nonsexual touch become a thing of the past in your marriage!